I wasn't going to write this blog because so many people have been blogging, twittering and commenting everywhere about the pure insanity of the NHL over the last two days but my outrage and disdain needs a place to go. So here it goes.
As a Habs fan I am slightly biased about the Chara/MaxPac hit, but as a hockey fan I can move that bias to the side and look at the whole picture of this season and of all teams. The NHL has gotten to the point where bad hits, from marginal players is at an epidemic proportion. What does the league do about this? Nothing. They throw out the odd suspension here and there to teams that aren't that important or not that high in the standings or to the odd player that makes league minimum salaries and mean less to their team then the equipment guy, but as soon as a star player does anything remotely serious it is swept under the rug.
I wasn't looking for Chara to be gone for the rest of the season and the playoffs, it would have been nice since MaxPac is gone for the season and possibly next depending on how his rehab goes, but I thought the NHL would at least suspend the guy for a couple games due to the fact that his arm and hand drove Max's face into the turnbuckle.
Then today they suspend Kubina for 3 games for giving a guy an elbow to the head, I agree they should have. In fact anytime any player targets another players head (Chara did) he should get at least three games. The NHL, however cannot consistently ever get that right. Look at Crosby (who I really dislike ass a player) he gets targeted twice in two games and hit in the head and has not played a game in two months. Both of those hits should have been suspended. They targeted Crosby and may not have hit him with an elbow but still hit the head with a should pad that is hard plastic body armour that is more or less like hitting a guy with a brick.
To top that off, the NHL gets a letter from a sponsor saying that they will withdraw their sponsorship of the NHL if it can't clean up the league. Instead of taking it under advisement, worrying about losing money, or just acknowledging that something has to be done, Bettman comes out and says thanks for all the money Air Canada but if you don't like this sport you can take your money and leave. So not only does the NHL not care about it's players safety, enforcing rules or looking at dangerous equipment but it doesn't even care about it's sponsors concerns.
You think to yourself, no worries, the NHL and owners only care about their own pockets. The players have the NHLPA that are there to protect the players and make sure that the NHL keeps safety and players concerns in the forefront of the NHL but instead of taking this seriously they are looking at the turnbuckle and saying that is the issue not the players out hurting each other.
So where does this leave the fans? Well we can petition the NHL to clean up it's act but if they won't listen to their sponsors they aren't going to listen to the fans. We could go to the NHL's big sponsors and have more of them put the hurt on the NHL, eventually they have to listen to that right? Or finally we can write lets to our team owners and get them to take action by removing Bettman, Campbell and all their cronies from the NHL and hope that new blood will correct the mistakes of old. What really needs to happen is for the owners, the NHL and the NHLPA to stop dragging their feet and get serious about change. Change the equipment so players don't get hurt by that, change the attitude of the players by suspending a guy for a year if he targets the head no matter who he is and finally get players to take responsibility for their actions on the ice.
Will it ever change, I don't really know but this year has been one of the worst years I have seen for injuries, bad hits, bad calls by refs and even worse calls by the NHL. Make your voice heard where it will make the most effect, contact your team owners and unfollow the NHL on Twitter and Facebook and finally don't buy anything that the money goes to the NHL. Eventually they may wake up and hear the complaints.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Canada Post Sucks
This blog has been brewing for a while now and I need to post it now.
I live in a newer neighbourhood in Calgary and as such we no longer get door to door delivery from Canada Post. They have "super boxes" placed all over the neighbourhood and you have a specific box and keys to get your mail. I have no problem with this as I realize the city is bigger and to save time it is easier to have a truck full of mail and place it in the right box instead of going door to door. It would just be nice if they actually put things in the right box. Yesterday I picked up the mail and there was a key (the key is to one of two bigger boxes that they can put a parcel in to) I opened the parcel box and it was a parcel for an address on the other side of the street from me. This wouldn't bother me so much except for the fact that they never get anything right. Over Christmas they were actually doing door to door delivery of parcels. My house number is 55. There was a package on my doorstep (they don't ring the doorbell or wait for someone to be home they just drop it on the door), the issue was that is was for 7966 on a completely different street. I can understand wrong street as everything starts the same name but to look at my house being 2 digits and this being a 4 digit house number wasn't a big red flag? Not to mention my house numbers weren't even in the 4 digit number.
Put that on top of my mother in law sending a package to us with gift cards that never ever arrived. It had a tracking number and was supposedly delivered to us at 10:30 one morning. Problem was I was home and the postal contractors never actually get to our neighbourhood until at least 2pm. Nothing ever came of that one.
I also still have not received my package from the US that was sent to me before Christmas. At this point I don't think I ever will get it.
So with Canada Post being useless, it comes down to the fact that I don't know what tell people that want to send me things.
I live in a newer neighbourhood in Calgary and as such we no longer get door to door delivery from Canada Post. They have "super boxes" placed all over the neighbourhood and you have a specific box and keys to get your mail. I have no problem with this as I realize the city is bigger and to save time it is easier to have a truck full of mail and place it in the right box instead of going door to door. It would just be nice if they actually put things in the right box. Yesterday I picked up the mail and there was a key (the key is to one of two bigger boxes that they can put a parcel in to) I opened the parcel box and it was a parcel for an address on the other side of the street from me. This wouldn't bother me so much except for the fact that they never get anything right. Over Christmas they were actually doing door to door delivery of parcels. My house number is 55. There was a package on my doorstep (they don't ring the doorbell or wait for someone to be home they just drop it on the door), the issue was that is was for 7966 on a completely different street. I can understand wrong street as everything starts the same name but to look at my house being 2 digits and this being a 4 digit house number wasn't a big red flag? Not to mention my house numbers weren't even in the 4 digit number.
Put that on top of my mother in law sending a package to us with gift cards that never ever arrived. It had a tracking number and was supposedly delivered to us at 10:30 one morning. Problem was I was home and the postal contractors never actually get to our neighbourhood until at least 2pm. Nothing ever came of that one.
I also still have not received my package from the US that was sent to me before Christmas. At this point I don't think I ever will get it.
So with Canada Post being useless, it comes down to the fact that I don't know what tell people that want to send me things.
Monday, January 3, 2011
What to do with a teenager?
Well this is a tough blog for me to write. I have two children one is a 14 year old girl (about to turn 15) and the other is a 10 yr old boy that has Aspergers Syndrome. My daughter is a step child but I have been raising her since she was 2.
With the mixed family there have always been issues but we managed to go get through most of them fairly well. Last year my daughter was failing school and was hanging around with some bad kids. In an effort to wake her up (after finding out the school would not fail her) we talked it over with her and sent her to her grandparents home for the remainder of the school year. Her marks didn't improve greatly but she seemed to be passing everything and had lots of friends and even got a job at McDonald's. We thought things were turning around and she was maturing.
My wife went down for a vacation just after school let out to discuss with her parents about my daughter staying for another year of schooling. They did not see enough effort put forth in school and it was causing them some hardships having a teenager living there so they said no and it was decided she would move back home. At this time we also found out that she had been drinking several times with her friends (we had asked her not to drink til she was 16). After my wife left my daughter had a week to quit her job, pack and get ready to move back in with us. In that time we found out she had a one night stand with a boy without using any protection.
Move forward to this year, things have actually been going fairly well, she was getting along much better with her brother, we were letting her go out with friends, giving her limited computer and cell phone time with the chance to increase her privileges based on school work. Just before Christmas we got her first report card. She was failing three classes, mainly because she wasn't putting any effort in them. We were very disappointed but after talking to her and the teachers we think things are going to turn around on this.
Then comes last night, she had asked to go hang out with a friend yesterday and we had no problem with it as we know this girl and didn't think a big deal of it. She came home on time (after having asked for a sleepover and denied because we needed her to babysit). When she got home she was acting somewhat strange, ran upstairs before even talking to us and changed, was talking about how she had to shower because her friend had put ketchup in here and in general not getting to close to us. She was also wearing a lot of perfume, which she never does as she knows it causes us migraines.
So after a little sleuthing work, looking at her eyes getting close and smelling her hair I was pretty sure I knew why she was acting strange. So I let her shower and then confronted her. No I didn't know for sure but I had my suspicions so I simply said "Do you want to tell me what you really did?" She had that shit look of a busted teenager on her face and said no. This when I knew for sure what happened. So I sat down and talked about why, who, where and if she knew what the consequences of doing pot was or could be. She wasn't very open and was avoiding eye contact and didn't really want to say much so I asked her is she wanted her mom brought into this conversation. She said whatever. So we moved to the living room and had a family talk.
We talked about trust, dangers of drugs, why she did it and who she did it with. After that we sent her to her room so that we could figure out what to do. I thin called the parent of the other girl to let them know what we had found out. She dismissed it for the most part saying my daughter doesn't do that but was still going to have a talk to her about it. She said things like that don't happen in our house and I hope this won't stop you from letting our kids hangout.
The problem with this is I know it was her daughters friend that supplied the drugs, it wasn't her daughters first time and it was under her watch that they did it.
So now the conundrum, what to do with my 14 year old daughter that thinks it is okay to drink, do drugs and have sex because as she puts it "All my friends are doing it and they all say how awesome it is".
I knew growing up was hard but this is ridiculous.
With the mixed family there have always been issues but we managed to go get through most of them fairly well. Last year my daughter was failing school and was hanging around with some bad kids. In an effort to wake her up (after finding out the school would not fail her) we talked it over with her and sent her to her grandparents home for the remainder of the school year. Her marks didn't improve greatly but she seemed to be passing everything and had lots of friends and even got a job at McDonald's. We thought things were turning around and she was maturing.
My wife went down for a vacation just after school let out to discuss with her parents about my daughter staying for another year of schooling. They did not see enough effort put forth in school and it was causing them some hardships having a teenager living there so they said no and it was decided she would move back home. At this time we also found out that she had been drinking several times with her friends (we had asked her not to drink til she was 16). After my wife left my daughter had a week to quit her job, pack and get ready to move back in with us. In that time we found out she had a one night stand with a boy without using any protection.
Move forward to this year, things have actually been going fairly well, she was getting along much better with her brother, we were letting her go out with friends, giving her limited computer and cell phone time with the chance to increase her privileges based on school work. Just before Christmas we got her first report card. She was failing three classes, mainly because she wasn't putting any effort in them. We were very disappointed but after talking to her and the teachers we think things are going to turn around on this.
Then comes last night, she had asked to go hang out with a friend yesterday and we had no problem with it as we know this girl and didn't think a big deal of it. She came home on time (after having asked for a sleepover and denied because we needed her to babysit). When she got home she was acting somewhat strange, ran upstairs before even talking to us and changed, was talking about how she had to shower because her friend had put ketchup in here and in general not getting to close to us. She was also wearing a lot of perfume, which she never does as she knows it causes us migraines.
So after a little sleuthing work, looking at her eyes getting close and smelling her hair I was pretty sure I knew why she was acting strange. So I let her shower and then confronted her. No I didn't know for sure but I had my suspicions so I simply said "Do you want to tell me what you really did?" She had that shit look of a busted teenager on her face and said no. This when I knew for sure what happened. So I sat down and talked about why, who, where and if she knew what the consequences of doing pot was or could be. She wasn't very open and was avoiding eye contact and didn't really want to say much so I asked her is she wanted her mom brought into this conversation. She said whatever. So we moved to the living room and had a family talk.
We talked about trust, dangers of drugs, why she did it and who she did it with. After that we sent her to her room so that we could figure out what to do. I thin called the parent of the other girl to let them know what we had found out. She dismissed it for the most part saying my daughter doesn't do that but was still going to have a talk to her about it. She said things like that don't happen in our house and I hope this won't stop you from letting our kids hangout.
The problem with this is I know it was her daughters friend that supplied the drugs, it wasn't her daughters first time and it was under her watch that they did it.
So now the conundrum, what to do with my 14 year old daughter that thinks it is okay to drink, do drugs and have sex because as she puts it "All my friends are doing it and they all say how awesome it is".
I knew growing up was hard but this is ridiculous.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Too much for the average person
I firmly believe that there is too much information out in society these days and with this constant barrage of information it is actually hurting society more than it helps.
In the past a person would know most of what was happening locally based on the local newspaper or papers and the local news station, they might here what was happening in their province/state and the odd story about what was happening in their country and perhaps the one right beside them. With the explosion of the Internet, personal computing and every Tom, Dick or Harry having a voice it has become a race to see who can hit you with the most information.
You get news companies travelling the world telling you about things happening in every nook and cranny in the entire world whether it affects you or not. You have companies like Wikileaks that are gathering secret/not so secret/ or down right embarrassing documents and posting them on the Internet for the entire world to see.
Now my question to the sane individual is do we really care or need to care about all of this. For centuries one politician has called another a name, one country became angry with another and sent a nasty letter but is it really news worthy? I personally don't think it is.
As a society we need to take steps to protect ourselves from this bombardment. Perhaps it's time to kill off the 24/7 news channels, tell companies it is not ok to publish every leaked document that comes to you. You wouldn't like it if your privacy was invaded and all your emails and correspondence was published to the world so why is it ok when someone does it to a government.
The government keeps secrets, it always has and it always will. Some secrets probably should be revealed so that they don't do dumb things, but others need to stay secret to protect them, us and our relationships with other countries.
So this holiday season, take a step back and really think. Do I give a rats ass about all this information and does it really benefit my over all life? You will be surprised at how much you really don't want to know.
In the past a person would know most of what was happening locally based on the local newspaper or papers and the local news station, they might here what was happening in their province/state and the odd story about what was happening in their country and perhaps the one right beside them. With the explosion of the Internet, personal computing and every Tom, Dick or Harry having a voice it has become a race to see who can hit you with the most information.
You get news companies travelling the world telling you about things happening in every nook and cranny in the entire world whether it affects you or not. You have companies like Wikileaks that are gathering secret/not so secret/ or down right embarrassing documents and posting them on the Internet for the entire world to see.
Now my question to the sane individual is do we really care or need to care about all of this. For centuries one politician has called another a name, one country became angry with another and sent a nasty letter but is it really news worthy? I personally don't think it is.
As a society we need to take steps to protect ourselves from this bombardment. Perhaps it's time to kill off the 24/7 news channels, tell companies it is not ok to publish every leaked document that comes to you. You wouldn't like it if your privacy was invaded and all your emails and correspondence was published to the world so why is it ok when someone does it to a government.
The government keeps secrets, it always has and it always will. Some secrets probably should be revealed so that they don't do dumb things, but others need to stay secret to protect them, us and our relationships with other countries.
So this holiday season, take a step back and really think. Do I give a rats ass about all this information and does it really benefit my over all life? You will be surprised at how much you really don't want to know.
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Christmas season or silly season.
It is officially December and things are starting to get crazy. For those that celebrate Christmas whether it be a religious holiday or just the gift giving holiday for you it is time to get all your ducks in a row and get ready for December 25th.
The malls are already insane as everyone is out looking for the perfect present for friends and family. Here the snow is on the ground which means no one can see the parking spots, so they simply park where ever there car fits. Even if it means parking on the grassy hill.
Christmas cards are being purchased and mailed, the postal service is being overwhelmed with packages and letters.
I am a little slow this year, my lights are sort of up but not fully working (and of course I don't check them when it is warm out), my tree is not up yet, I think I may be done all my gift purchasing except for the few little things that I need to buy and ship out. My decorations are also still buried in the basement. I will have to pull them all out this weekend so the house looks a little more festive.
Company Christmas parties have also started. Now who doesn't love these awkward events. You get to hang out, eat, drink and dance with people that you spend 5 days a week or more with and that you probably have nothing other than you work in the same company in common with. Someone will inevitably get to drunk and do something stupid that will be talked about for the next year (one year at one of my parties a secretary got up on a table dancing and stripped).
So with this season be safe, kind and courteous because everyone is stressed out this time of year and we all need to take a step back and relax and enjoy life, friends and family.
The malls are already insane as everyone is out looking for the perfect present for friends and family. Here the snow is on the ground which means no one can see the parking spots, so they simply park where ever there car fits. Even if it means parking on the grassy hill.
Christmas cards are being purchased and mailed, the postal service is being overwhelmed with packages and letters.
I am a little slow this year, my lights are sort of up but not fully working (and of course I don't check them when it is warm out), my tree is not up yet, I think I may be done all my gift purchasing except for the few little things that I need to buy and ship out. My decorations are also still buried in the basement. I will have to pull them all out this weekend so the house looks a little more festive.
Company Christmas parties have also started. Now who doesn't love these awkward events. You get to hang out, eat, drink and dance with people that you spend 5 days a week or more with and that you probably have nothing other than you work in the same company in common with. Someone will inevitably get to drunk and do something stupid that will be talked about for the next year (one year at one of my parties a secretary got up on a table dancing and stripped).
So with this season be safe, kind and courteous because everyone is stressed out this time of year and we all need to take a step back and relax and enjoy life, friends and family.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Politics a taboo subject no more
With most places in Canada finishing off city elections and the US voting in a fairly major election today I thought this was a good time to post my thoughts on the political landscape.
When growing up, I never really heard my parents talk politics and I was always told you always avoid talking politics and religion in a gathering unless you were looking to start a fight.
With the Internet age happening now and everyone looking for an outlet for their thoughts as well as always looking to become more informed I find that taboo is not really around anymore. Everyone loves to talk politics and for the most part people are fairly civil even if they are on opposite sides of the political spectrum. I personally feel a healthy discussion keeps everyone informed and makes you rethink why you are voting for one person over another and gives you a more informed decision.
Now with that being said you have to watch the people that are at the extreme ends of the political spectrum whether it be Left or Right. The people at the extremes will always feel they are right and will only push their agenda and do not want to hear yours. This is where you will get nothing but arguments and will frustrate yourself and them. I would suggest avoiding them.
I am going to precede my next thoughts with saying I think it is every persons duty to go and vote, we live in a free society where we are not pressured to accept one way of thinking or another and we have the ability to make a decision and should vote the person we feel will do the best for our City, Province/State, Country. The people that do not vote and then complain piss me off more than those at the extremes and are pushing an agenda. At least they are outspoken and they vote for what they believe in.
That being said, voting for one politician over another will very seldom ever change anything because although we think that if we change the Mayor, Governor, Premier, President, Prime Minister or which ever head you are voting for that it will indeed change anything we are sadly mistaken. In most political arena's the politicians, although the face of the government, don't actually do a whole lot. The bureaucrats that we never voted for, never see and would never know are the ones that actually carry out the day to day activities of the government and most times tell the elected official what is happening and what to say. If we truly want a change we need to elect a person that will take on these bureaucrats head on and heaven forbid be willing to fire them if they refuse to do things that will actually help make the changes that they are sent in to make.
These are just my opinions and I know many people believe differently, that is what makes politics great, everyone can have an opinion and can share it to the world if they want. The one thing I ask though is that you take your opinion out to the polls and vote every time there is an election no matter what is going in your life because only the people that vote can truly make a difference.
When growing up, I never really heard my parents talk politics and I was always told you always avoid talking politics and religion in a gathering unless you were looking to start a fight.
With the Internet age happening now and everyone looking for an outlet for their thoughts as well as always looking to become more informed I find that taboo is not really around anymore. Everyone loves to talk politics and for the most part people are fairly civil even if they are on opposite sides of the political spectrum. I personally feel a healthy discussion keeps everyone informed and makes you rethink why you are voting for one person over another and gives you a more informed decision.
Now with that being said you have to watch the people that are at the extreme ends of the political spectrum whether it be Left or Right. The people at the extremes will always feel they are right and will only push their agenda and do not want to hear yours. This is where you will get nothing but arguments and will frustrate yourself and them. I would suggest avoiding them.
I am going to precede my next thoughts with saying I think it is every persons duty to go and vote, we live in a free society where we are not pressured to accept one way of thinking or another and we have the ability to make a decision and should vote the person we feel will do the best for our City, Province/State, Country. The people that do not vote and then complain piss me off more than those at the extremes and are pushing an agenda. At least they are outspoken and they vote for what they believe in.
That being said, voting for one politician over another will very seldom ever change anything because although we think that if we change the Mayor, Governor, Premier, President, Prime Minister or which ever head you are voting for that it will indeed change anything we are sadly mistaken. In most political arena's the politicians, although the face of the government, don't actually do a whole lot. The bureaucrats that we never voted for, never see and would never know are the ones that actually carry out the day to day activities of the government and most times tell the elected official what is happening and what to say. If we truly want a change we need to elect a person that will take on these bureaucrats head on and heaven forbid be willing to fire them if they refuse to do things that will actually help make the changes that they are sent in to make.
These are just my opinions and I know many people believe differently, that is what makes politics great, everyone can have an opinion and can share it to the world if they want. The one thing I ask though is that you take your opinion out to the polls and vote every time there is an election no matter what is going in your life because only the people that vote can truly make a difference.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Monsters... Or are they?
Last night I went to see a premier of the movie Monsters. It is an indie movie shot on a shoe string budget that I had never heard of but a friend won tickets and asked if I wanted to go. After doing some searching and finding a trailer I thought why not. From the trailer it looked like your typical SciFi alien invasion type movie.
I couldn't have been more wrong, the movie had me interested the whole time and was more a social commentary on how the world treats things it sees as bad whether they are or not and the movie was more a self discovery journey of the two main (and really only) actors. The aliens themselves actually had a very minor role and limited screen time in the movie but were an integral part of the story line.
This movie will not be for everyone, and it is really not so much a movie about Aliens as it is a story about mankind. If you like a movie that has some suspense, a little bit of action and an actual story line then you will enjoy this movie. If you are looking for a sci-fi shootem up movie I do not recommend this at all.
I really did like the movie and think it will do quite well once it gets a bigger release and will likely buy it when it comes out on DVD so I can re watch it and see what I missed.
There are more reviews on IMDB about this movie but I found them more comical than helpful and people just seemed to have a hate for the movie. I did find one of them humorous, it was where a poster suggested the movie be called Christmas Squids. Once you see the movie you will get it.
I couldn't have been more wrong, the movie had me interested the whole time and was more a social commentary on how the world treats things it sees as bad whether they are or not and the movie was more a self discovery journey of the two main (and really only) actors. The aliens themselves actually had a very minor role and limited screen time in the movie but were an integral part of the story line.
This movie will not be for everyone, and it is really not so much a movie about Aliens as it is a story about mankind. If you like a movie that has some suspense, a little bit of action and an actual story line then you will enjoy this movie. If you are looking for a sci-fi shootem up movie I do not recommend this at all.
I really did like the movie and think it will do quite well once it gets a bigger release and will likely buy it when it comes out on DVD so I can re watch it and see what I missed.
There are more reviews on IMDB about this movie but I found them more comical than helpful and people just seemed to have a hate for the movie. I did find one of them humorous, it was where a poster suggested the movie be called Christmas Squids. Once you see the movie you will get it.
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